So I considered sharing an update from my own personal experience but then I stumbled across this guys explanation which is pretty spot on. You can imagine me saying this exact thing minus the part about having a two year old. I am about at the same stage right now. He has other updates later down the road which I intend to watch but he makes me laugh and that is too painful so I will wait.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0vkUqxxDGjg